Let's start the new year blogging again!
I became a first-time aunt on 9/10/11. Tate William Millard is so precious. The only thing I would change would be getting to see him more often!! I can't wait to watch him grow through 2012.
Sunday, January 1, 2012
Saturday, August 27, 2011
Communicate
How intriguing is communication? Both verbal and non-verbal. The answer for me is extremely.
Think about how much we communicate every single day and with how many people. It is astounding. How often do we conciously think about how we communicate? How much time do we put into learning and improving our communication? The words we use and the way we use them are so important and yet there is often little thought put into them. The non-verbal signals we send in our body language, tone, eye contact and gestures for example can often say more than the words themselves. I almost think it is an art that we all use and that we all must continually work to improve.
The english language is massive. The number of words we have to choose from is outstanding, and yet there are often no words to adequately express a thought or feeling. Each one of us interprets those words in different ways. It just amazes me. There is so much room for misunderstanding. We have to be aware of this to better understand each other. I think this has lead me to occassionally be a bit over-communicative. The goal is to get as close as possible to having the other person understand my thought as I understand it. There are so many barriers in the way of that happening. We are all individuals, with different perspectives, different life experiences and backgrounds, different associations with certain words or tones, different cultures of gestures and expressions, leaving so much room for error in transmitting a thought or feeling through communications.
I won't even touch on the changes that technology bring into this! I just want to get you thinking. I am completely intrigued by communication. It is a constant for all of us. I believe this should mean it should be a constant focus for improvement as well. Think how much better work would be if everyone could learn to communicate with each other better. Think of how much better all your relationships would be if communication was improved. Even in retail or restaurants. It is a huge topic with many different facets. Just something to ponder....
Please let me know if you have any thoughts on the subject!
"Communication works for those who work at it." -John Powell
"The single biggest problem in communication is the illusion that it has taken place." -George Bernard Shaw
Think about how much we communicate every single day and with how many people. It is astounding. How often do we conciously think about how we communicate? How much time do we put into learning and improving our communication? The words we use and the way we use them are so important and yet there is often little thought put into them. The non-verbal signals we send in our body language, tone, eye contact and gestures for example can often say more than the words themselves. I almost think it is an art that we all use and that we all must continually work to improve.
The english language is massive. The number of words we have to choose from is outstanding, and yet there are often no words to adequately express a thought or feeling. Each one of us interprets those words in different ways. It just amazes me. There is so much room for misunderstanding. We have to be aware of this to better understand each other. I think this has lead me to occassionally be a bit over-communicative. The goal is to get as close as possible to having the other person understand my thought as I understand it. There are so many barriers in the way of that happening. We are all individuals, with different perspectives, different life experiences and backgrounds, different associations with certain words or tones, different cultures of gestures and expressions, leaving so much room for error in transmitting a thought or feeling through communications.
I won't even touch on the changes that technology bring into this! I just want to get you thinking. I am completely intrigued by communication. It is a constant for all of us. I believe this should mean it should be a constant focus for improvement as well. Think how much better work would be if everyone could learn to communicate with each other better. Think of how much better all your relationships would be if communication was improved. Even in retail or restaurants. It is a huge topic with many different facets. Just something to ponder....
Please let me know if you have any thoughts on the subject!
"Communication works for those who work at it." -John Powell
"The single biggest problem in communication is the illusion that it has taken place." -George Bernard Shaw
Monday, July 25, 2011
Music
Isn't it incredible how much power music has over your feelings?
One of my favorite things to do is jam in the car or in my living room to a great song. George thinks I'm crazy when I dance around my living room, and many people have probably seen me rocking out in my car, but I just don't particularly care. It feels so free. I feel so much through music. One of my favorite quotes is:
"Music expresses that which cannot be said and on which it is impossible to be silent." Victor Hugo
Sometimes music makes you contemplative or melancholy, other times it can make you rejoice with gratitude. Most of my favorite songs make my heart full of joy and love. No matter how it makes you feel, music can completely transform your thoughts and your mood in any gien moment. Lyrics are sometimes the cause, other times it is the beat, and some of the best songs have both. Most recently Michael Franti has been my inspiration for these thoughts on the love of music. His music sounds happy and full of love, it is kind of reggae. He provides positive messages full of hope, love and fath. I am a big believer of hope, love and faith. Here are some of my favorite lyrics.
"Life is too short to make just one decision. Music's too large for just one station. Love is too big for just one nation. And God is too big for just one religion."
"I wake up every mornin and I'm steppin on the floor, I wake up every mornin and I'm stepping out the door. I got faith in the sky, faith in the One, faith in the people rockin underneath the sun."
"My momma told me don't lose you, cause the best luck I had was you...It seems like everywhere I go the more I see the less I know"
"So if you're feelin down and out, got no place to go now. Just sing along to the music y'all, let it fill your soul now, because everyone deserves music, sweet music."
"Don't let nobody ever tell you that it couldn't be done, Don't let nobody ever tell you that we couldn't be one, Don't let nobody ever tell you that it shouldn't be sung, Don't let nobody ever tell you you're the only one. Singing hey, hey, hey No matter how life is today There's just one thing that I got to say I won't let another moment slip away."
"See when you need a friend, Somebody to walk to, My friend, somebody to talk to, I'll be right there waiting for you."
There are many more lyrics, songs, and artists that I love, this is just my most recent joy of music that I wanted to share. What are your thoughts? :)
One of my favorite things to do is jam in the car or in my living room to a great song. George thinks I'm crazy when I dance around my living room, and many people have probably seen me rocking out in my car, but I just don't particularly care. It feels so free. I feel so much through music. One of my favorite quotes is:
"Music expresses that which cannot be said and on which it is impossible to be silent." Victor Hugo
Sometimes music makes you contemplative or melancholy, other times it can make you rejoice with gratitude. Most of my favorite songs make my heart full of joy and love. No matter how it makes you feel, music can completely transform your thoughts and your mood in any gien moment. Lyrics are sometimes the cause, other times it is the beat, and some of the best songs have both. Most recently Michael Franti has been my inspiration for these thoughts on the love of music. His music sounds happy and full of love, it is kind of reggae. He provides positive messages full of hope, love and fath. I am a big believer of hope, love and faith. Here are some of my favorite lyrics.
"Life is too short to make just one decision. Music's too large for just one station. Love is too big for just one nation. And God is too big for just one religion."
"I wake up every mornin and I'm steppin on the floor, I wake up every mornin and I'm stepping out the door. I got faith in the sky, faith in the One, faith in the people rockin underneath the sun."
"My momma told me don't lose you, cause the best luck I had was you...It seems like everywhere I go the more I see the less I know"
"So if you're feelin down and out, got no place to go now. Just sing along to the music y'all, let it fill your soul now, because everyone deserves music, sweet music."
"Don't let nobody ever tell you that it couldn't be done, Don't let nobody ever tell you that we couldn't be one, Don't let nobody ever tell you that it shouldn't be sung, Don't let nobody ever tell you you're the only one. Singing hey, hey, hey No matter how life is today There's just one thing that I got to say I won't let another moment slip away."
"See when you need a friend, Somebody to walk to, My friend, somebody to talk to, I'll be right there waiting for you."
There are many more lyrics, songs, and artists that I love, this is just my most recent joy of music that I wanted to share. What are your thoughts? :)
Saturday, June 18, 2011
Photomaniac
I have been called a "photomaniac" before. This was in reference of my love for photos, not a love for light as could be the meaning of the word. It is true, I do love a camera in my hands. Although I have not delved too far into the manual use of cameras or the professional side of photography, something about being behind the lens makes me feel at peace. I prefer my digital SLR, but always have my point and shoot in my purse.
I just purchased a new camera. I am partial to Nikon's for some reason. I believe in the pictures the Nikon lens produces and the quality of the brand. My new point and shoot is a 16 megapixel (which I really don't believe makes much of a difference in everyday use above 8 mp or so, but it sounds impressive), 7X zoom camera with a touch screen. I'm not sure how I will like the touch screen, but it is difficult to find many small point and shoots with more than a 3X zoom, and I was convinced this was the newest and best of the point and shoot Nikons. I am excited to learn this new camera and what all it is capable of. My old one worked perfectly fine, but I was feeling the urge to get something new, like somehow I was lagging behind in the world of cameras! Now I have the itch to get a new digital SLR as well. Cameras are just exciting to me I guess, even though I'm nowhere near an expert on them.
I like to think I have a good eye for photos. I enjoy trying to capture images that are unique to my perspective. I think it is intriguing to see the difference in a picture based on a perspective. We all have a different view of life, and we get to see a glimpse of each other's views through photography. I'm not incredibly knowledgable technically, but I understand the basics. I want to get out and click the shutter. I want to capture what is around me. There is beauty and intrique everywhere we go, and sometimes it doesn't feel like enough to just soak it all in with my eyes. One interesting thing to me is that it seems to feel like a personal thing to me, as if I just want to be alone behind my camera capturing whatever it is I am capturing. This is why I have never been much interested in trying to do portriats. I'm not very vocal, I don't know how to tell someone what I want them to do or be in a picture. I am more interested in the candid shots, the unplanned moments.
I would say photography is my one real hobby, even though I don't know a whole lot, even though I don't go out to shoot photos that often, even though I don't share it with many others. I love it, it puts me at peace, makes me feel completely vulnerable and open to the world, and gives me something that is completely mine. I like to think I get one absolutely incredible picture for ever 1,000 I take! Now I feel the need to get out and take some pictures...
I just purchased a new camera. I am partial to Nikon's for some reason. I believe in the pictures the Nikon lens produces and the quality of the brand. My new point and shoot is a 16 megapixel (which I really don't believe makes much of a difference in everyday use above 8 mp or so, but it sounds impressive), 7X zoom camera with a touch screen. I'm not sure how I will like the touch screen, but it is difficult to find many small point and shoots with more than a 3X zoom, and I was convinced this was the newest and best of the point and shoot Nikons. I am excited to learn this new camera and what all it is capable of. My old one worked perfectly fine, but I was feeling the urge to get something new, like somehow I was lagging behind in the world of cameras! Now I have the itch to get a new digital SLR as well. Cameras are just exciting to me I guess, even though I'm nowhere near an expert on them.
I like to think I have a good eye for photos. I enjoy trying to capture images that are unique to my perspective. I think it is intriguing to see the difference in a picture based on a perspective. We all have a different view of life, and we get to see a glimpse of each other's views through photography. I'm not incredibly knowledgable technically, but I understand the basics. I want to get out and click the shutter. I want to capture what is around me. There is beauty and intrique everywhere we go, and sometimes it doesn't feel like enough to just soak it all in with my eyes. One interesting thing to me is that it seems to feel like a personal thing to me, as if I just want to be alone behind my camera capturing whatever it is I am capturing. This is why I have never been much interested in trying to do portriats. I'm not very vocal, I don't know how to tell someone what I want them to do or be in a picture. I am more interested in the candid shots, the unplanned moments.
I would say photography is my one real hobby, even though I don't know a whole lot, even though I don't go out to shoot photos that often, even though I don't share it with many others. I love it, it puts me at peace, makes me feel completely vulnerable and open to the world, and gives me something that is completely mine. I like to think I get one absolutely incredible picture for ever 1,000 I take! Now I feel the need to get out and take some pictures...
Saturday, May 7, 2011
Passionate discussion
This week I was strongly reminded of something I am passionate about - learning, experiencing, growing, embracing opportunities, and having an open-mind. I know that is several "somethings", but to me it is all related.
I was given the unique opportunity to attend a motivational business seminar with many high profile speakers for free and an excused absence from work. My first reaction was heck yes sign me up! There was no hesitation, knowing I had no deadlines that would prevent me from being able to miss that day of work. However, I heard some skepticism and doubt around the office. Co-workers spoke of how it is only a sales pitch, or they didn't agree with some of the speakers, or it would just be an over-crowded feel good seminar that didn't help, or you would only be brainwashed by what the speakers had to say.
What?!?
My first argument here is that I believe YOU have complete control over whether you will be brainwashed or not. Go in with an OPEN mind but also some healthy sense of skepticism to ask questions and not blindly accept what others say. YOU also have control over whether you spend your money. They may try to sell you the moon, that doesn't mean you don't have to buy it. Know that they will try to sell things and control that for yourself. Say no, move on. The entire seminar is not strictly selling.
Secondly, high profile speakers, no matter what their political affiliation, race, age, sex, religion, or whatever else you want to label them with, are intriguing people. They have had experiences that you and I have not. Whether you agree with them or not, like them or not, they have something to offer. Actually, I believe everyone has something to offer each of us. That's the beauty of people, we are all different in our experiences and our perspectives. Listening to such prominent people speak about what they know and what they have experienced is a blessing. They are where they are for some reason, whether you agree with that or not. You never know what could resonate with you.
Thirdly, it is a FREE, EXCUSED absence from work. Need I say more? Grab the opportunity!
It is a chance to grow, to learn something new, to expand your mind. You don't have to change your mind, but by expanding it to new ideas, thoughts and experiences you can only grow. I cannot say this will or will not benefit me until I go and see for myself. I do not blindly accept someone saying this is life-changing, but I will not blindly accept someone telling me it is not worth my time. I will decide that myself. Even if I end up thinking it is negative, it is one more experience I can cross off my list.
That is my belief. It continues to be a strong belief.
I was given the unique opportunity to attend a motivational business seminar with many high profile speakers for free and an excused absence from work. My first reaction was heck yes sign me up! There was no hesitation, knowing I had no deadlines that would prevent me from being able to miss that day of work. However, I heard some skepticism and doubt around the office. Co-workers spoke of how it is only a sales pitch, or they didn't agree with some of the speakers, or it would just be an over-crowded feel good seminar that didn't help, or you would only be brainwashed by what the speakers had to say.
What?!?
My first argument here is that I believe YOU have complete control over whether you will be brainwashed or not. Go in with an OPEN mind but also some healthy sense of skepticism to ask questions and not blindly accept what others say. YOU also have control over whether you spend your money. They may try to sell you the moon, that doesn't mean you don't have to buy it. Know that they will try to sell things and control that for yourself. Say no, move on. The entire seminar is not strictly selling.
Secondly, high profile speakers, no matter what their political affiliation, race, age, sex, religion, or whatever else you want to label them with, are intriguing people. They have had experiences that you and I have not. Whether you agree with them or not, like them or not, they have something to offer. Actually, I believe everyone has something to offer each of us. That's the beauty of people, we are all different in our experiences and our perspectives. Listening to such prominent people speak about what they know and what they have experienced is a blessing. They are where they are for some reason, whether you agree with that or not. You never know what could resonate with you.
Thirdly, it is a FREE, EXCUSED absence from work. Need I say more? Grab the opportunity!
It is a chance to grow, to learn something new, to expand your mind. You don't have to change your mind, but by expanding it to new ideas, thoughts and experiences you can only grow. I cannot say this will or will not benefit me until I go and see for myself. I do not blindly accept someone saying this is life-changing, but I will not blindly accept someone telling me it is not worth my time. I will decide that myself. Even if I end up thinking it is negative, it is one more experience I can cross off my list.
That is my belief. It continues to be a strong belief.
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